“You’ve outgrown the old strategies. Now what?”
People tend to find me when something needs shifting in their lives. When success feels hollow, when relationships don’t land right, or when old stories need to unravel.
You might have mastered ‘playing the game’—but at the cost of your joy, personal power, or sense of self. You might be exhausted from trying to “figure it out,” caught in the loop of striving and self-editing. Maybe you're noticing that the strategies that once worked no longer feel aligned. Something deeper is knocking at the door, wanting to come out, but unsure of how.
That’s where we begin.
We slow down, make space for what needs to be heard, and unfold inner transformation.
What inquiry is alive for you right now?
You may feel stuck, caught in old patterns and knowing that they need to change, but not knowing where to start. You’ve followed the rules, swallowed the advice, and still feel like a stranger in your own life
The way I see it: Our relationship to life, is an extension of our relationship to ourselves.
When I’ve been unsure of who I am and how to do me right, it’s only natural that I also struggle to take space at work, show up in my relationships, or come from power and purpose. It’s only by meeting myself where I’ve not had permission to be met, and updating parts of myself that have been stuck in the past that I’ve been able to sit with my shadows and turn things around.
What if the parts you’ve been taught to hide are the keys to your freedom?
Often what's needed is to sit in the present with what's real for us in the here and now and get clear on how old beliefs and patterns are limiting us. We need to dive deep and be with what wants to be unleashed. You don’t need to be ‘fixed.’ You need space to exhale, rebel against the script, and reclaim what’s yours.
I come in as a diving partner, bringing my insights, holding space for what's not been allowed to be seen, and helping you resurface with practical steps and clarity. I’m not a coach that prescribes a solution, nor am I a therapist that promises to fix you. Instead, we work together to we create a safe-enough and brave-enough space to begin to see what’s really at play.
My Story
I am a grandchild of empire - born into a set and setting where the effects of colonialism continue to have a vice-grip on life. I lived through the systematic oppression that comes with that: racism, poverty, disconnection from the land and community, and loss of identity. At the same time, paternal abandonment and maternal enmeshment at home meant that I struggled with my own host of mental health issues.
The question that followed me was “who do I need to be in order to feel safe and to be accepted?”
I learnt to wear a mask to fit in and do what I was “supposed” to. When the mask finally cracked and I realised that I had been wearing it for so long that I had forgotten who I really was - beyond my stories, beyond my conditioning, and beyond empire.
A deep reckoning was due - with personal trauma, family history, and with the systems that oppress our expressions of gender, abundance, sexuality, choice, and freedom in the world. All this needed to be met and to shift so that I could truly build a life and tools to help birth a new world into being.
Now, I offer that same space to others—to reckon, to remember, and to reimagine.
Clients who’ve reclaimed their identity, power and joy!
What now?
If you're still reading, it's because you want to make a change. You want to see if a different life is possible. For you, for us, for the world.
What’s the next piece of the puzzle, I wonder? Let’s name it together on a free 30-minute taster.